If you’ve ever felt frustrated by the way our system handles addiction, you’re not alone. I’ve been there too — both personally and professionally — and my writings are my way of sharing what I’ve learned about what really leads to stable recovery
My life’s work is improving recovery outcomes for people struggling with substance use. I grew up surrounded by addiction and mental health challenges, and after battling alcohol myself, I entered treatment in 1995. While I began my recovery journey, I was struck by how many of my peers relapsed. That question — why does treatment fail so often? — along with my dedication to ensure the people I love have access to effective treatment should they need it, has guided my path ever since.
In 1998, I learned about programs designed for airline pilots and doctors that achieved over 90% long-term recovery rates. These evidence-based approaches were proven to work, yet unavailable to the general public. That realization drove me to become a licensed counselor, advise families, and push for reforms that would give all people the same chance at lasting recovery.
Over the years, the opioid crisis made the system’s failings even clearer. Families were losing children despite doing “all the right things.” Research began to show what actually helps: medication-assisted treatment, outpatient programs, case management, drug testing, family and community support, and listening to the voices of people in recovery themselves. This stands in contrast to the traditional model of inpatient treatment, referral to AA, and abstinence-only care, which works for some but fails far too many.
As a lawyer, counselor, and person in long-term recovery, I’ve seen both the damage caused by outdated approaches and the hope offered by reform. This blog is my effort to share evidence-based practices, challenge misinformation, and highlight what truly improves recovery outcomes.
If you’re a family member, someone in recovery, or simply seeking better answers, you’ll find resources here to help navigate the system with clarity and hope. Together, we can move beyond “tough love” and outdated thinking — toward approaches that save lives and restore family well-being